What To Do When He Wants You To Act Like A Porn Star In Bed

Do you like to watch porn with your boyfriend or husband? Many women find that this is a sexual turn-on. But what are you to do when your man suddenly wants to try some of the more “daring” or “unusual” acts you two are watching on screen? If you scream “no!” without discussion, you risk seeming prudish and uptight. If you just go along with it, you may feel anxious, not enjoying the act at all. It’s your body, too, and you deserve to have some say in how it’s handled and what sex acts you will and will not perform. You have the right to enjoy sexual acts with your guy just as much as he does.

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By definition, sex is supposed to be pleasurable. Therefore, all sexual acts you engage in as a couple (or alone) should bring you pleasure, or you should refuse to participate in them. Don’t do something just to make your man happy or because you fear he’ll turn to someone else to satisfy his odd sexual urges.

With the sexual culture changing all the time, virtually no sexual acts are considered to be taboo anymore. When men and women see porn stars acting these previously taboo sex acts out on screen, they assume that these acts are expected of them, even required of them. Men, particularly, begin to believe that all women wish to act like porn stars in bed.

For example, many men pressure their women to try anal sex after viewing it in porn videos. If your guy asks this of you, and you decide to give it a shot, make sure to take precautions before letting him in the back door. Never allow a man to penetrate your anus and then remove his penis and penetrate you vaginally. This can cause all sorts of nasty infections. The best way to have anal sex is with a condom, just as you would with regular sex.  While there’s nothing wrong with experimenting with your loved one, if you choose to do so, make sure to let him know you’ve never tried this act before, you’re not sure you’ll like it and that you want to go slowly

If, however, you decide that you cannot, will not, and may never try some of these porn acts in bed, make sure to talk to your partner about your feelings. Don’t raise the subject during sex. Wait until you have the privacy to have a deep discussion about your feelings. Make sure to tell him how much you enjoy having sex with him, but that you do not enjoy the idea of this other sex act, and that you are not a prude – it’s just your personal opinion. If your man truly loves and respects you, he will go along with your wishes.

Or, if you think you might be able to stand these “porn acts” occasionally, but not all the time, let him know that, too. Tell him that you’ll let him know when you are ready to do it. Make sure to tell your guy what you do like, maybe even trading off (I’ll do A for you if you do B for me). With a little compromise, you should be able to maintain good communication and enjoy a healthy sex life together.

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