Comments on: A mistress is a lover, not a wife!

By: Lynx

Lynx — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 02:56:00 +0000

…Women have lower sex drives than men. Hammer, please understand – if women’s sex drives were lower than men, how is it that female can reach climax several times without a refractory period whereas men can’t during intercourse. That’s powerful biology to be designed to climax repeatedly and doesn’t appear like a lower sex drive compared to men. Should a man be versed in the art of mentally stimulating a woman, they would experience a woman driven to to copulate more frequently which is non-dependent on emotions. Women are goddesses of love and emotion, fire and desire, the carriers and sustainers of life. Can a man match that?

By: Mecvaldez@gmail.com

Mecvaldez@gmail.com — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 15:07:00 +0000

this is all sickening! a Sodom and Gomorrah way of life and thinking!! Everyone in that city and the city was burned down!

By: Liamsmommy0826

Liamsmommy0826 — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 22:40:00 +0000

I’m a mistress and love it not love him….. his wife knows about me….. they are still together I don’t want him to leave her…. it’s fun with him…. **** you if you don’t like me….. your husband would…..

By: homie. lover. friend.

homie. lover. friend. — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 11:55:00 +0000

I am a mistress although my man is not married but has a girlfriend and child. We’ve been fooling around for 9 months now and it is absolutely wonderful. We’ve been through several incidents where his girl found dirt on us (phone calls, texts, videos:) but we won’t give eachother up. He’s leaving her and I’m anxious to see if i assume a new role. Just be warned that in finding a “mister” you may also find a man worthy of being so much more.

By: Dan

Dan — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 02:06:00 +0000

Frankly, I think for *most* men and women it is impossible to have sex without feelings coming out. In both men and women (especially women) chemicals are released in the body that will mentally bind them together. Usually this cannot be stopped by self control as brain chemistry directs a lot of what we do.

Also, as the woman, I think many men will think less of you after you have been in this type of relationship. It is not politically correct, but just the way it is…

I would really advise against this type of relationship. I have seen this in acquaintances of mine – it only ends in a disaster. Perhaps not at first, but disaster is looming. I have never seen it end any other way.

By: nicegirl

nicegirl — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 03:12:00 +0000

I am in this exact type of relationship. Although he is not married but living with a woman. I was ending a 13 yr marriage when we 1st met, never in a million years planed it. Its been over a year now. I see him for about a week straight 24/7 every month – then he flys back to the west coast. About the love bit though — not possible to NOT fall in love with someone you are sleeping and spending the entire night with. At least not for me. But the rest of the guide lines are right on. I don’t want someone living close, seeing them all the time. I need to breath, to feel alive again. Those 13 years were awful. And yes, this current man has built my self confidence up unbelievably. Life is not like an instruction book, that if you do this and that, you will get this. Things happen. Yes, I have free will, I know the difference between right and wrong. But for those that judge, you are not in my shoes. Besides, he is the most beautiful man I have ever had the opportunity to make love with!!

By: Holcomb2315

Holcomb2315 — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 23:59:00 +0000

i know you

By: Guest

Guest — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 17:32:00 +0000

Married or separated the man still has a wife. He could be lying to you about being separated. How about this get a divorce or I will not see you. People are so stupid to get involved with someone who is legally married. Oh and his WIFE loves him more than you. When th get tired of you or the next woman comes along that strokes his ego do you not think he will do the same to you??? Why not find a single man who is not tied down? These married men were once single too and apparently the men who cheat are not a good catch just weak men. It takes a strong good man to be faithful and there are plenty of good strong men out there who would never cheat and who treat you like a Queen. He could be poor rich ugly hot who cares if he is a good person he is a keeper. Maybe lower down your criteria because you are not perfect either and find one with good qualities who is single and not a cheating prick.

By: sheenacalura

sheenacalura — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 17:19:00 +0000

i am also a mistress,,i am 21 years old and i dont know how to deal with it right now because i am inlove with him,his separated he told me that he is in a good relationship with his wife because of their 4 years old daugther and i accept it,but the fact that i knew even we love each other there will be the time that he will be back on his wife and it feels me really hurt,,and even he is separated he still wearing his ring and its simply says that he is married and no one can be like his wife..i am little bit stress right now because the more the situation gets longer i am deeply in love with him.from the very first time i dont know where to put my self on his life and i dont even know if i should have to expect even he loves me.can you give me some advice what the best way to do,,and how to not get hurt when i decide to leav him and start my life without being in so much heart aches.

By: Steph

Steph — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 19:47:00 +0000

You guys are swingers…